Why are girls so mean to each other? Sometimes I don't understand the female. Which is probably why I have few girl friends and spend most of my time with Luke; a calm, sweet, level headed male. Oh I've been guilty of some out of control female emotions, but those are reserved for Luke (once a month) and he deals with them like a Champ. What I'm talking about and what I've never understood is the cattiness, the insecurity, the insatiable need to compete with one another, to judge each other, to gossip, and to create cliques in order to exclude other females. It is strange behavior. I've seen it even between so called "friends". (I believe the actual term they use for each other is "frenemies." And what's unreal is that I've only heard ADULTS use this term. ???) Men don't act like this. Why are some girls so vicious?9/11/08
